ei guyz..share ku lang i2 mahaba sha pero mganda pramis.. ;D
napulot ku lang 'toh eh!
LoVe...
Anyone who has gone through the agony of
losing someone she loves so much will still wish
against all odds to have that love back again.
But, sometimes a love lost is a love gone
forever. No amount of hope can bring to life a
relationship that just died a natural death. Set
yourself free. Let your heart spread its wings
and fly. Remember, it may rain for 40 days and
40 nights, but still will not rain forever. One
day the pouring will stop and there will be
plenty of branches where you can find rest. One
of these is where you will build your nest and
start over again. It's never too late. Remember,
you may find love and lose it but, "WHEN LOVE
DIES, YOU NEVER HAVE TO DIE WITH IT".
Remember that you cannot be a redeemer all
your life. The best way to weigh a relationship
is out in the test of fire. You cannot be a
sooner of your mistake forever. Remember, we all
fail and make wrong decisions but our blunders
are meant not to bury us deep in misery but to
teach us the valued lessons of life. Loving is
always a learning process.
With love, we learn how to care and
sacrifice. We learn to share and reach out. We
learn to be unselfish and give more than we can.
And when everything doesn't end well, we learn
how it fells fall, we strive to get back on our
feet and move on. This is where we learn
that "Life doesn't end where our heartaches
begin".
THERE IS NO FUTURE IN A RELATIONSHIP OF LIES
AND SELFISHNESS. It's true, there's life in
love. But, there can still be life even after
losing love if you leave the past behind and let
your heart heal and give you the chance to find
yourself again. The success of a relationship
lies not only in the beauty of its beginning but
in its consistency. Make a choice not on impulse
but a decision based on a healthy balance of
mind and heart. Let us always remember
that "HAPPINESS IS NOT A MATTER OF DESTINY BUT A
MATTER OF CHOICE".
There comes a time in our lives when we
chance upon someone so nice and beautiful and we
just find ourselves getting so intensely
attracted to that person. This feeling soon
becomes part of our everyday lives and
eventually consumes our thoughts and actions.
The sad part of its when we begin to realize
that this person feels nothing more for us than
friendship. We start our desperate attempt to
get noticed and be closer but in the end our
efforts are still unrewarded and we end up being
sorry for ourselves.
"YOU DON'T HAVE TO FORGET SOMEONE YOU LOVE.
WHAT YOU NEED TO LEARN IS HOW TO ACCEPT THE
VERDICT OF REALITY WITHOUT BEING BITTER OR SORRY
FOR YOURSELF. YOU WOULD BETTER OFF GIVING THAT
THE DEDICATION AND LOVE TO SOMEONE MORE
DESERVING". Don't let your heart run your life,
be sensible and let your mind speak for itself.
Listen not only to your feelings but to reason
as well. Always remember that if you lose
someone today, it means that someone better is
coming tomorrow.
"IF YOU LOSE LOVE, THAT DOESN'T MEAN THAT
YOU HAVE FAILED IN LOVE. CRY IF YOU HAVE TO, BUT
MAKE SURE THAT TEAR WASHES AWAY THE HURT AND THE
BITTERNESS THAT THE PAST LEFT YOU WITH. LET GO
OF YESTERDAY AND LOVE WILL FIND ITS BACK TO
YOU". And when it does, pray that it may be the
love that will stay and last a lifetime.
A woman on the rebound could easily fall for
sweeping emotions and be made to falsely believe
that she finally stumbled upon the right man
when what she just found is only someone to
cover up for the love she lost. A man who makes
promises with words and not with actions may
never live up to fulfill them. "IT'S TRUE THAT
LOVE CAN WAIT FOREVER BUT IT IS CRAZY TO
STUBBORNLY HOPE FOR SOMEONE WHO DOESN'T EVEN
CARE OR UNDERSTAND HOW WE FEEL".
Loving someone is never a sin. It is what
people do out of love that sometimes makes it
all wrong. The selfish desire to want that
person is what makes it a sin. Don't think only
of your feelings for real love doesn't have a
place for selfish people. When there is love,
there is always sacrifice.
When we love someone, we NEVER easily GIVE
UP on that person. Even if we get hurt badly we
always try to find a way to ease the pain and
learn to understand and forgive. Loving too much
doesn't hurt. It is when we expect this love to
be reciprocated that we begin to seek approval
and acceptance of the things we have done and
when we are taken for granted and rejected, we
curse the very same love that we once freely and
happily offered.
"DON'T WASTE YOUR TIME WAITING FOR SOMEONE
WHO NEVER REALLY CARED ABOUT HOW YOU WOULD HAVE
FELT. OPEN YOUR HEART AGAIN AND GIVE YOURSELF
THE CHANCE TO FIND THE MAN WHO WOULD MAKE LOVING
WORTH THE PAIN AND THE SACRIFICE. Just like
anything else, our love grows weak and extent.
Beyond that, it withers without any hope of
recovery and soon dies".
God wakes us up in the midst of a storm to
teach us a lesson. He takes away people we love,
so we can learn to value love itself. He makes
us cry so hard so we can see clearly when we
open our eyes. He makes us bitter so we can
realize that there is no genuine happiness if we
think only of our needs and not of others.
Relationships built on jealousy and
selfishness is doomed from the very beginning.
The hardest part of losing love is letting go
and moving on. Most of us cry endlessly over
things that could have been but never will be.
"God allows us to experience pain to make us
stronger and better persons. He will see us
through the most trying and difficult times in
our lives and only if we put our trust in Him we
can learn to find joy in our tears and happiness
in our sorrows".
In many failed relationships, separation
comes as the inevitable choice but moving on
always proves to be twice as difficult as
letting go. Sometimes, the end of a relationship
is imposed on us, but our choice to hold on is
always beyond the control of circumstances.
Letting go is a decision that can never be
dictated on us. It is a resolve we make
ourselves. Acceptance is the key to a new
beginning and time is the healer of all wounds.
Even if the storm casts its fearful shadow,
there will always be light after our darkness
and lonely moments. There is always a hope for
those who believe. There is always a chance for
those who try. "Losing someone we may not be a
loss at all but a blessing because someone even
more is yet to come".
There is nothing wrong in expressing our
feelings to someone we love, but "we must always
be sensitive to the signals that tell us when to
rationalize and be sensible." There comes a time
in our lives when we would fall for someone who
wouldn't be as interested as we are because his
attention is focused on someone else.
There are many times when we love but don't
get loved in return. There are times when the
sign ahead says stop but we still stubbornly
head on. We would say our love is unconditional,
but if it really is, then we should never feel
bad. But why do we get frustrated when love
turns sour? Because we still subconsciously seek
acceptance and assurance from the people we care
about.
Being in love can be the most wonderful
thing we could experience but if the feeling
begins to consume our whole beings, then we have
to stop and let our minds and not our hearts
dictate our actions. Only when we learn to
accept our fate and understand the meaning of
our failures we can truly go on with life
without having to look back and cry over the
things that could have been but will never
be......
but bliv it or not, wat's weird bout the scene wuz one hr aftr nya sbhn un (nsa school kme, break tym un, so when classes were resuming na...) di ko tlga mapigil ung iyak ko. lam mo ba yung feeling na may gripong bumubuhos? 
peace out...
