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Post by ultramarc on Jun 8, 2003 6:21:31 GMT -5
you are in a relationship, around three years, and it has been shaky for the last 3 months. you feel something for this good friend but this good friend is also a good friend of your gf/bf. what to do now?
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Post by TwizTeR on Jun 9, 2003 5:58:21 GMT -5
hirap nun.. 3 yrs!!! gs2 ko nun.. ung mtatag!!! un lng..
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Post by anne on Jun 9, 2003 9:19:50 GMT -5
Mahirap ata yang problema mo ultramarc...siguro masasabi ko lang ayusin muna yung problem with gf/bf. Why not confront your partner about your problem diba mas ok yun.
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Post by - a r k i b o y - on Jun 10, 2003 11:58:01 GMT -5
woah....
lufet ng situation 'dre ah...
nwei, dpat mag-usap sila...
talk about kung ano yung nagpapagulo sa relationship nila....
an about nmn dun sa commn friend nila...
dpat siguro kalimutan muna ng guy kung anuman yng feeling nya for her...if he really wants to save his current relationship...sayang nmn...3 yrs na un...
un lang pow... 
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Post by bianx^ on Jun 10, 2003 20:19:43 GMT -5
kya nga ska parang ang pangit sa frend pa nia a.. e close pa yata cla.. dapat cguro u shud talk it over nalang.. dba.. tagal nio na a,, 3 years pero pag di na talaga pwede.. e di wag na.. sbi kc nila karamihan daw ng ganyan kya d nagbrebreak kc iniicp nila "ang tagal na namin, sayang naman!" hehe.. do you get wat i min?  ;D |
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Post by ultramarc on Jun 11, 2003 5:32:39 GMT -5
un ba dapat ang iisipin para mag-stay sa isang relationship? kse sayang ung pinagsamahan? sayang ung memories? sayang ung 3 years?
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Post by anne on Jun 11, 2003 5:43:31 GMT -5
Oo nga sayang kung sayang pero kung wala na talagang chance, kahit masakit tanggapin, kailangan pilitin tanggapin yung pangyayari. Hindi sa yun ang dapat isipin...kung ganun lang ang iisipin mo lagi e walang mangyayari diba. Pero sige iiyak mo lang yan labas mo lahat ng sentiments mo...mawawala din yung pain unti unti at makakarecover parin. All you have to do is accept it, alam ko madaling sabihin mahirap gawin pero kailangan mong gawin. Masasabi ko lang siguro in order for a relationship to go strong dapat may strong foundation kayo ng friendship. In other words, kahit kayo na you still treat each other the same like before. Friendship parin ang nangingibabaw kahit kayo na. Parang yung relationship ng magbest friend diba. Kung pano yung treatment mo sa best friend dapat ganun din sa karelasyon mo. Opinion ko lang yun...
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Post by ultramarc on Jun 11, 2003 6:08:47 GMT -5
by the way, naisip ko lng 2ng scenariong 2. walang koneksyon 2 sa buhay ko. lalo na ung may nafi-feel for another girl..sobrang hindi. kaya nga walang bumabagabag sa konsyensya ko ngayon eh, dati kse meron tlga akong nafi-feel sa ibang girl, pro ngayon, 100% wala!
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Post by wutagirl on Jul 17, 2003 1:54:51 GMT -5
mahirap na sitwasyon! grabe pinawisan akow! hehe... pero i guess, ansagot andun sa tao eh... three years is three years... isipin muna niya kung talagan may feelings siya dun sa friend na yun kasi mahirap bitiwan ang tatlong taong pagsasama... nde dahil sa memories eh... it's the fact na tumagal kayo ng 3 years... it means there might be this spark na mahirap alisin ng biglaan.... try to assess if mas strong yung feelings dun sa girl... if yes, discuss mo sa gf mo... i would guess, sobrang honest nyo naman sa isa'tisa kaya tumagal ng 3 years... if i were the gf, i would feel happy na sinabi saken ng bf ko, kahit nagfa-fall na siya sa iba... at least he respects me enough and he trusts na open-minded ako... tas diba... pag napag-usapan niyo na, dun mo na malalaman if kelangan nyo na ilet-go ung isa't isa or take the situation as an added spice to your blossoming relationship...
parang ala akong sense... pero sana gets mo...
peace-out!
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Post by ultramarc on Jul 17, 2003 5:25:00 GMT -5
actually u make sense!
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Post by wutagirl on Jul 17, 2003 8:09:52 GMT -5
ayt...buti naman na-gets mo...naguluhan akow sa mga pinagsasabi ko... wahehe... peace-out!
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Post by Samantha_Jones on Sept 15, 2003 0:59:05 GMT -5
[glow=red,2,300]Are you really willing to let go of your security with your 3 yr gf/bf for a relationship that you don't know if it will come through or not? What if fleeting lang yan? Been there done that. Ako yung other girl. In the end I made him realize na I may never be able to give the security na meron siya sa gf niya. And in the end I realized na for me fleeting lang yung feeling.We're friends now. I suggest you acess yourself more. Good luck![/glow]
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Post by brad on Sept 15, 2003 9:28:55 GMT -5
by the way, naisip ko lng 2ng scenariong 2. walang koneksyon 2 sa buhay ko. lalo na ung may nafi-feel for another girl..sobrang hindi. kaya nga walang bumabagabag sa konsyensya ko ngayon eh, dati kse meron tlga akong nafi-feel sa ibang girl, pro ngayon, 100% wala! ows!! talaga lng ha..so, kwentong barbero pla 2.. peace!! ala lng mgawa.. |
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Post by darkwing on Sept 18, 2003 21:49:19 GMT -5
hindi ako makapagisip ng maayos ngyon eh.. sensha na!!  |
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Post by nyzgurl on Sept 29, 2003 9:29:08 GMT -5
 sure knb sa feelings mo dun s fwend mo? kc bka mamya, dhil sa mjo may problema keio ng gf mo eh nabaling lng s knya ung feelings mo.. alm mo un.. syang kc... try mo munang ausin ung problem nyo ng gf mo bago ka gmwa ng bagong problema.... pgnaayos n ung s gf mo... ska mo problemahin kng mahal mo pa sya o hnd nah.... dbah?! wehehehe... tama ba? la p kc akong experience s lab eh... sensha kng hnd mgnda ang adbyzzz kow.... sna maayos n... un lng.... 
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Post by darkwing on Oct 8, 2003 5:25:57 GMT -5
ala raw experience!!!!??
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Post by *haRuko.RinOa* on Oct 10, 2003 6:10:10 GMT -5
impossible! ;D
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Post by nyzgurl on Oct 12, 2003 4:44:47 GMT -5
;D tru nmn... bkt ayw maniwala?! hnd p nga ako ngka2bf eh... tru un... pwomise!!! blive me!!!!   |
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Post by darkwing on Oct 15, 2003 8:38:19 GMT -5
owwsssss....
di nga???
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;D
sure knb sa feelings mo dun s fwend mo?
