wutagirl
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Post by wutagirl on Jul 9, 2003 21:56:25 GMT -5
i was just thinking... ever since kasi, i've always believed na the best advice would be to accept the fact na kailangan mo na mag-move on, grab it, then move on. kaso anhirap pala gawin un. so, next na naisip ko, find someone new... ang kaso, lagi ko naco-compare lahat ng darating sa KANYA. nagiging unfair lang tuloy sa ibang tao kasi nadadamay pa sila sa kalokohan ko. ngayon, sinusubukan ko na lang magalit sa KANYA, gamitin yung galit para makalimot. kaso, pag tumawag na siya, ngumiti, tumitiklop ako. ang ending, nagui-guilty pa tuloy ako. help naman pow! sana wag nyo isagot wait for the right time... medyo 6 months na ko nagta-try mag-move on....how much longer? saklolo po!!!!
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Post by anne on Jul 10, 2003 5:30:24 GMT -5
Solusyon lang diyan? Madali lang yan anak...ilabas mo lahat ng sentiments mo dito at focus ka sa ating YJ family. Sama ka sa aming singles club. Sa totoo lang masarap maging single. Seriously, we need to divert our attention to someone or something para makalimot. Ganun naman lagi e kasi kung di mo dadivert attention mo sa iba lagi ka matotorture sa kakaisip ng kung ano ano lalong lalo na pag la kang magawa. You'll end up being miserable. Di naman nakakatulong yung galit na yan e tinotorture ka lang niyan. Nagawa ko narin yan dati pero di naman ako natulungan niyan e. Ako dito ko finofocus attention ko sa forum kaya di ko pinoproblema yung mga love love na yan masaya na ako kay fafa jay r.
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wutagirl
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Post by wutagirl on Jul 10, 2003 20:24:13 GMT -5
thanks pow... sana magawa ko... tagal ko na ring loyal sa di naman dapat <kasi di naman kame or anything> sobrang good friend na naman ang drama ko...
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Post by TwizTeR on Jul 11, 2003 1:35:25 GMT -5
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Post by shir on Jul 11, 2003 7:41:08 GMT -5
alam mo ba sis yan ang hatest feeling ko..ung kelangan mo mgmove on pero u cant find the ryt way on how to. ako din sobrng ganyn gingwa ko wenever i get hurt nghhanap ng pampalit.. pero iwas very wrong.. nde pko ngkabf kc nga sobrng dme kong fears..sa mga bgay n nde ko nman alam kung anu... plaging bestfriend mterial ang drma ko... ang gingwa ko nlng i keep myself busy.. sobrng i involve myself into many activities.. kesa magmukmok at mbliw edi il mke use of my tym nlang sa mas mgandang bgay... xempre mhirap gwin pero if u r rily dtermined there's a way.. kc patience tlga is a virtue... pag pra sau.. edi sau. pag nde... unfortunately nde. cmple lng nman tlaga ang buhay e.. mhirap nga lang. moving on is not an overnyt thing..it is a process... god bless sis..beliv me..god has prepared someone na sobrng tlgang pra sau. =) yngatz lage
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wutagirl
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Post by wutagirl on Jul 11, 2003 7:57:33 GMT -5
thanks sa advice sis.... lammo un din naicip ko gawin... mag-involve sa kung ano-anong org... eh ang kaso... siya lang lge laman ng utak ko <besides pagkain...hehe> nung minsan nga kausap ko guy friends ko,siya tinatawag ko... kahiya talaga yun!!!! asar-talo tuloy ako buong araw... un nga eh... rebounder niya me lagi... nung sila pa nung gf niya, ako taga-advice... kaasar nga eh... pinipigilan ko siyang makipag-break, di naman me selos or inggit... basta ba mahal siya eh... tas ngayong break na sila, ako naman taga-advice sa mga dates nya. kaloka talaga... >>>>twizter>>>> andyan ka lang ba talaga? nakang! patulan ba daw! joke-joke-joke!!!!! ;D
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Post by bianx^ on Jul 11, 2003 20:51:45 GMT -5
hmmm.. para kse sakin pag kaka break palang.. ayaw q muna talaga siya kausapin.. cguro it myt take a while bago ko siya kakausapin nd if gusto parin niya makipag friends sa tagal na un okei.. kse pag kaagad agad na nandiyan parin siya habang kabrebreak nio palang.. ai iba na yan.. hirap!!!
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wutagirl
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Post by wutagirl on Jul 12, 2003 9:19:37 GMT -5
haaay....i wanna move on but i can't...reality bites!!!! pero siemps... need tolive life daba..... haaayyy...sucks talaga.... kayong mga guys! wag na kayong paasa! wahehe... anhirap!
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chicosky
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Post by chicosky on Jul 12, 2003 21:42:28 GMT -5
simply embrace the pain, pero in private.. cry if u nid 2, dont eat if dont want to.. pero dnt show it, u dnt want 2 luk pathetic.. after sumtym it wil go away. so suffer all u can now..
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Post by bianx^ on Jul 13, 2003 4:31:17 GMT -5
yeah.. correct and besides.. the pain will go away eventually.. as for now.. uhmmm.. try to rechannel yourself..
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wutagirl
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Post by wutagirl on Jul 13, 2003 19:25:08 GMT -5
thanks chicosky and bianx... it's happy to get to hear all kinds of advice wala akong masabi, i'm starting to see things sa iba't ibang angles.... anhirap ma-decipher kasi mga bagay-bagay pag ikaw lang mag-iisa titingin napaka-subjective at biased ng mga makikita mo haha! too bad ang bias ko eh para dun sa guy di para sken... God bless po! and thanks ulit!
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Post by ultramarc on Jul 14, 2003 9:52:38 GMT -5
e2 naman..wala pang advice c dr. broken hearted! ;D hear ye! hear ye!
shir and bianx, correct kau jan...try to keep yourself busy, really really busy. kung may ok na org, salihan mo, kung wala, mag-aral ka. kung wala kang pag-aaralan, hang out with friends! have fun with them! sobrang effective! <actually, that's what i am doing right now, it has been a month++, pro, dko na gaanong pnoproblema ung sken> try also not to think of the person, or anything that wud remind you of him. malo2ngkot ka lang iha. pro, d mo tlga maiiwasang maisip ung taong un. if ever mang maisip mo ung taong un, and u feel sad, u feel like crying, edi iiyak mo, ilabas mo ung nafi-feel mo, pro try to do it in private. mukha kang timang nun kung in public. isipin pa ng iba naba2liw ka!
isa pa, this is optional ha. ako kasi, i try not to talk to the person, kahit sa text, kasi malo2ngkot ka kasi ng sobra2 din. lalo na madami kaung pnagsamahan. maraming memories.
lastly, REMEMBER: GOD HAS A REASON FOR EVERYTHING. kung hindi kau, hindi tlga kau. lahat tayo, panget man, o maganda man, o gwapo man, merong isang tao para sa atin, and that single person ang makakasama natin habang buhay.
so there you go. let's make a recap: 1. keep urself busy 2. try not to think of the person that much, although minsan tlga e maiisip mo sha 3. GOD HAS A REASON FOR EVERYTHING. 4. try not to talk to the person *
*optional
keep this 4 "Golden Rules" of Moving On, and i assure you, kahit papano, you'll feel better.
OR
for a faster remedy:
text me! here's my number, 09172772983, and i'll make sure you'll forget that guy! i'll be waiting! don't forget to text me ur name ok?
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Post by bianx^ on Jul 14, 2003 10:31:21 GMT -5
oo nga.. hrap pag mrmi kayo pnagsamahan.. corect ka dun ultramarc.. pero alam mo khit na d kyo mcydo mrmi pnagsamahan basta minahal mo na un tao.. d rin e.. hirap parin kalimutan..
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Post by anne on Jul 14, 2003 23:00:14 GMT -5
Haha si ultramarc nangangarir dito sa forum ;D Wutagirl dami naman u prospect nakakainggit ka naman daladalawa pa si twizter at ultramarc hehehe ;D ;D ;D
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wutagirl
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Post by wutagirl on Jul 17, 2003 1:44:01 GMT -5
nay anne.... ala naman nangangarir sken noh... tsismis ka nay ah!!!!
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wutagirl
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Post by wutagirl on Jul 17, 2003 1:44:56 GMT -5
limot ko... thanks sa lahat ng nag-advice!!!
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Post by anne on Jul 17, 2003 5:01:17 GMT -5
nay anne.... ala naman nangangarir sken noh... tsismis ka nay ah!!!! Wala daw...daladalawa nga e. ;D ;D
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wutagirl
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Post by wutagirl on Jul 17, 2003 8:15:37 GMT -5
nay naman eh.... di ko nga kilala yang mga yan eh... tsaka baka may pumatay sken.... wahehe.... ;D amishu nay anne!
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Post by anne on Jul 18, 2003 9:28:55 GMT -5
ngyork! sino naman kaya...wala naman e
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wutagirl
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Post by wutagirl on Jul 18, 2003 22:19:53 GMT -5
nay talaga...binebenta akow... wahehe! neways... miss na kita nay anne! sana sabay tayo makapag-online minsan... mwahugz!
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